tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post8326709707736922121..comments2023-07-05T09:31:00.709-04:00Comments on Women's Marriage Ministry: Tonight he WILL noticeAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00617425607227159538noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-69117364977515102302009-11-29T14:50:13.877-05:002009-11-29T14:50:13.877-05:00that is my husbands #1 gripe - me being the non-in...that is my husbands #1 gripe - me being the non-initiator....ok, ok....Thank you so much for your Women's Marriage blog. I am so thankful for women out there who want to support women in their marriage in the name of Jesus. Bless you. My husband and I just finished the Fireproof series at our church...we watched the entire movie 2 weeks ago and I can say, I am in the same place that the wife was in the movie but I trust in the Lord and I know that he can help me to become the wife I need to be and to love my hubby unconditionally. Also, we have been trying for a child for 2 years now, ever since we got married....no dice yet but even if God doesnt bless me with another child - I thank him for the life he has given me in my 8 year old daughter!NayLahKneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08263168852107789298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-90872412235855221442009-11-19T12:28:06.232-05:002009-11-19T12:28:06.232-05:00I'm joining in on the fun, a little late, but ...I'm joining in on the fun, a little late, but I started with this challenge and am moving back to the start to catch up now. This one was hard...we're young, 21 and 22, and have only been married about 18 months, but sex is tough for me. I am so guilty of making my husband feel unwanted, and I really see that Satan is trying to plant that between us and lead us to temptation instead of each other. I initiated last night, in the lingerie I never wear, and he loved it. We had some mechanical troubles along the way, and it wasn't long before I was mad and frustrated with God, but then I stopped to think what I was letting the devil do in that moment, and we managed to redeem the night and be happy with the time together in spite of it all. I'm going to keep trying on this one. Thanks Aimee!Kellynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-41769312071039618702009-11-19T10:17:09.083-05:002009-11-19T10:17:09.083-05:00I offered and he refused (he was tired) but he did...I offered and he refused (he was tired) but he did accept a backrub and was still commenting on it this morning! I think the point is to offer oneself freely and go with the flow!Novabellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14394358752596383564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-41661895679978633252009-11-18T18:10:07.464-05:002009-11-18T18:10:07.464-05:00I over heard someone say today, why is it that whe...I over heard someone say today, why is it that when I meet up with my husband at starbucks, and I walk in every man turns to see who came in but my husbands head never flinches.<br /><br />Lets get back to the basics.....give our husbands something to turn there heads over. Let's not take one for granted.<br /><br />Thank you for your transparency....enjoying your post, good work.Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03423035228955876472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-55735292903511799192009-11-18T14:57:05.226-05:002009-11-18T14:57:05.226-05:00Aimee,
I'm right there with you. I will not ...Aimee,<br /><br />I'm right there with you. I will not turn it down anytime, but I won't initiate. We have been married almost 30 years and had our ups and downs, and me not initiating has always been a painful area for my husband. You are right he wants to be desired. I've had 3 c-sections and my body is certainly not anything to look at, but he continues to tell me that he loves me the way I am, that my body is his body and when I talk down about myself it hurts him. This will be a tough assignment for me tonight, but I will do my best to make something happen.<br /><br />My husband and I are committed to make our marriage work and like I said we are going on 30 years. It's refreshing to see others not give up easily - especially these days in this throw away society.<br /><br />Thank you for this blog. You are doing good work!<br /><br />DebAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-64226987188844294682009-11-18T14:50:37.131-05:002009-11-18T14:50:37.131-05:00I'm in!;) Tonight is perfect! My Adam has to w...I'm in!;) Tonight is perfect! My Adam has to work late and I'll be able to get the kids in bed sooner and easier when he's not here---then get myself ready! Thanks Aimee, I wouldn't have done this without your prompting! I probably would have gone to bed early too!Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13012980818415078689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-21009641425038114992009-11-18T14:40:16.056-05:002009-11-18T14:40:16.056-05:00Congratulations. A lot has happened for you all th...Congratulations. A lot has happened for you all this year.<br /><br />Aimee-this challenge is not fair. We all know that baby making sex is the best so you have a jump start on us all. We are talking about #3 next year, so maybe we should start sooner and be due date buddies. This probably won't happen tonight since we have church and don't get home until late and I feel like crap but I will probably be waiting up for him tomorrow night when he gets home from school with a smile on my face.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12849693517876190128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-24660771260475124352009-11-18T14:01:47.254-05:002009-11-18T14:01:47.254-05:00Hey Beth. I am going to add an update to the blog....Hey Beth. I am going to add an update to the blog. I meant to cover this originally. Thanks for the reminder.<br /><br />AimeeAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00617425607227159538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-56955086226501110152009-11-18T13:44:58.018-05:002009-11-18T13:44:58.018-05:00I used to be really good at this, prior to having ...I used to be really good at this, prior to having my daughter. Since then with a horribly stretch marked covered, saggy, flabby belly, I don't feel attractive anymore so I have lost that drive. I am embarrassed about my body and I am embarassed to let my husband see.<br />Any advice?Bethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-80170728646420285692009-11-18T13:26:09.620-05:002009-11-18T13:26:09.620-05:00hehe i know what you ALL will be doing tonight!!! ...hehe i know what you ALL will be doing tonight!!! there'll be a lot of love in the world tonight :) have fun, ladies!!!TJOsMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15245131538147084834noreply@blogger.com