tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post6110332985851445365..comments2023-07-05T09:31:00.709-04:00Comments on Women's Marriage Ministry: Are You Getting The Most Out Of This?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00617425607227159538noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-72024765517865080592009-11-19T18:28:24.560-05:002009-11-19T18:28:24.560-05:00Aimee,
This has helped my dead marriage from total...Aimee,<br />This has helped my dead marriage from totally falling apart. We actually got divorced in April but are now on the road back together. Up until I started reading your blog he refused to even think about ever living together as a family again. After just 3 days of your challenge he has told me that he would like us to get back together and is now planning on moving back in. Thank you so much for your blog!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-78933834187376303652009-11-14T08:34:32.852-05:002009-11-14T08:34:32.852-05:00This post rings so true to me. There is a big diff...This post rings so true to me. There is a big difference between being "right" and being "good." I ponder that often.<br /><br />Bless you and the work you are doing.Novabellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14394358752596383564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-15542371856299972252009-11-13T22:32:05.964-05:002009-11-13T22:32:05.964-05:00Aimee, you're so wonderful for doing this. Al...Aimee, you're so wonderful for doing this. Although my husband is not responding in a positive way to my improvements I feel more confident and pure hearted that I'm doing everything I can to help our marriage. Pray that things turn around for us soon. This is hard.~Jennifer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/05575713643304172377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-83383818109762530442009-11-13T22:30:08.812-05:002009-11-13T22:30:08.812-05:00Hi Aimee
I didn't get the chance to read Thurs...Hi Aimee<br />I didn't get the chance to read Thursday's post until tonight (Friday); but what just jumped out at me was the statement you made:<br /><br />"....the devil will be watching out for you. He will try to get in the way of progress."<br /><br />I think if we can get our heads wrapped around that statement, it sure helps us to get a better perspective on things and not be so quick to blame our spouse. If I can picture the devil trying to wedge himself in between me and my husband, it helps me have a different outlook on whatever situation we're experiencing. <br /><br />This might help me to not "lose my cool" so quickly and be more determined to make things right with hubby.<br /><br />Just a thought.<br /><br />~Michelle Found<br />Picton, Ontario, Canada<br />www.fiddlersfound.blogspot.comMichelle Foundhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04149958452683536980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-100431457760881062009-11-13T22:15:38.840-05:002009-11-13T22:15:38.840-05:00aimee,
i have followed Kayleighs blog for a long ...aimee, <br />i have followed Kayleighs blog for a long time, and now i follow yours. I just want to tell you that your family has changed my life. Not only has Kayleigh helped me deal with and appreciate my children and their needs, but your blog now has just helped me out with my marraige. And when i say just helped me out, i mean just now. I put my pride aside and though about how i had just yelled at my husband and what he must be thinking and how bad he must feel, when i know its not really him i was mad at. It was the situation, and just because he is my husband, that does not mean that he is my "punching bag". I need to be better at this in the future. I have always had the thought that since he is my husband that its ok that he is the one that sees the worst in me and that he shouldnt hold it against me. But why would he want to be with someone that comes to him with all of the sorrows and bad happeneings of my day. I need to also go to him with everything that makes me happy. If im so negative all the time, why would he want to be around me. I wouldnt want to be around me! i am so lucky that i decided to read your blog and that i can work on my marraige and save it before it is destroyed by me. <br />So i called him at work and i said i was sorry. I told him it was not him i was mad at. I told him he did the right thing and that it was ok between us. I told him i understood him. the best part is it was all how i really felt. i really think that he appreciated this. I think it was what he needed. I love him so much and the last thing i want to do is lose him. <br />Thank you for starting this blog<br />ShelbyShelbynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-53366918383686854232009-11-13T14:56:00.709-05:002009-11-13T14:56:00.709-05:00Aimee,
I think all this you are doing is so great...Aimee,<br /><br />I think all this you are doing is so great, and helping so many people. :) I started out doing the challenges, but since my husband is out of town, I've been writing them all down so I can pick up when he gets back. I know some can be done with him away, but I prefer to be face to face. I'll let you know how it all goes. :)<br /><br />AutumnAutumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00709092660694599053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-345363153684300038.post-42141985451289782612009-11-13T14:38:45.438-05:002009-11-13T14:38:45.438-05:001. Read to understand how to respond to your spous...1. Read to understand how to respond to your spouse's negative behavior. Don't read to put your spouse on a guilt trip by saying, "See, this is you! This is what you do!"<br /><br />This is so true, and often so hard! <br />I am trying to learn how to communicate better with my husband, but I usually end up sounding like I am attacking him. I hate that!! Working on it though!! =)Lily Dawn https://www.blogger.com/profile/04111679477678902750noreply@blogger.com